Sunday, July 8, 2012
Is Technology corrupting the dating game??
I recently read the most adorable blog post entitled "Here's to the Liars and the Cheaters...." from Lady Million. Her post made me think of how fortunate we are to have wonderful men in our lives <3 reading the comments made me wonder why are so few of us sooooo lucky more like blessed with these individuals that make our life that much more worth living happily.
So I started thinking: Back in the days, people dated within their own town, close friends of the family, etc. and it seemed to work. Nowadays, it's so different. Long distance relationships, online dating sites, Facebook, back and forth with old and new friends.
Are some men eliminating the "rules" of the dating game now that any sort of meaningless relationship is so close to their fingertips?
It's so easy to meet new people and much easier than just going to a bar or a park or who knows where people went before Facebook to make friends.
Is their mindset focused on their ability to find a new date? How hard can it be anyway when they have 500-1000+ "friends" on Facebook. "If this chick is crazy, I'll hit this one up", a "friend" of mine said.
Dating is so easy and yet so complex (I guess it depends on what you're looking to get out of your date) can it really be left open. Will these men ever take any relationship seriously if in the back on their minds and on their social media platforms they will always have plan B or C, or D or E & F...etc. always looking into what a person has to offer ME ME and ME as opposed to what can I offer him or her.
My thoughts here are all over the place, I know, I was just sayin'
It's just so fulfilling to find someone that you can rely on, that makes you smile on your worst days, to share kind gestures, etc. I just wish there were more relationships like that. =)
That's all! =)